Monday, September 16, 2013

Learning Experiences 3


Learning Experience Three
Time Management
            I have always been one to give myself high remarks when it comes to time management. Throughout grade school and high school, I always got my work done on time. Whether my work was at home, at school, or at my job, I was always pretty prompt and on top of things. Even last year as a freshman, I displayed pretty good time management skills. This semester, though, things have changed. I have let all of the distractions of college get ahold of me and detract from my time management skills. This has been frustrating, but it is something I will learn from and correct.
            Looking back at my last 20 years, its fairly clear now just how easy I had it. Sure, I displayed the ability to manage my time well on a consistent basis, but the thing is, I really didn’t have all that many things to balance. As I’ve gotten older, the number of things I am involved with has drastically increased and the amount of distractions around me has increased as well. Being a college student is fun, but it can also be stressful when you can’t manage your time. I am learning from this right now and next semester I will put changes into place.
            There are some things that stand out to me as the root causes of my poor time management. First, my living situation. I live in the Pi Kappa Phi Fraternity House. Living in the house is naturally going to be a rowdy and messy time, but I didn’t account for just how rowdy and messy it really is. There are always friends and friends of friends in the house and at just about every turn there is another opportunity to get distracted. Because of this, and a few other reasons, I have decided to move out of the house and live in the GrandMarc second semester. By cutting down on friendly distractions in the house, I believe I will be better able to manage my time and focus my attention better on my academics, on working out, and on pursuing other ventures on and off campus.
            The second big problem I’m having with time management is just the sheer number of things I have to keep up with these days. I’m a pretty involved guy. I’m in a fraternity, I do volunteer work, I’m a Neeley Fellow, and starting next semester, I’m a VP of the Neeley School’s Consulting Club. My activities just keep piling on. I need to find a way to either cut back on the amount of things I’m involved with or at least set up a schedule that better supports myself. I need to learn not to overreach my boundaries and stretch myself too thin.
            The third, and most easily correctable, problem I’m having with time management is my own personal lack of focus. Let’s face it; freshman year at TCU is pretty easy. In fact, I thought it was really easy. My high school back in Nebraska was far more challenging than my freshman year here. After freshman year, I had the mindset that every year would be that easy. I came into this school year with that mentality and it has not paid off. I am having one of my worst semesters for grades I’ve ever had. The mentality that I brought this year worked well freshman year and allowed me to easily manage my time. But now, things have changed. I cant continue to manage my time like I did as a freshman or success will be hard to come by.
            I have learned a lot from the poor time management skills I have shown this semester. I know I have a lot to fix, but the good news is I’m still young here at TCU and have a long time to correct these issues and learn from them. I’m glad I started to notice these problems early on, otherwise my next two and a half years might not have gone as smooth.

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